My family. What a fun group of people.
For over half of my life, I lived far enough away from my family that I didn’t see them all for birthdays. Growing up, we always celebrated everyone’s birthday in our family. It’s not to say that a huge party was thrown, or anything like that, but ensuring that everyone was celebrated at least once a year – that was a big deal. We’d have the occasional birthday party (mine, of course, was my sweet sixteen), but for the most part we kept it low-key.
Adding people into our family, via my brothers getting married and nephews being born, added even more fun to the Burton birthdays. Until recently, I didn’t live by family for any of my one sister-in-law’s birthdays (Tiffany), nor my two youngest nephews’ birthdays (Ross and Ryder). But I would attempt visits home to get everyone together to do a Burton Birthday Bash. With the exception of Ross, whose birthday is in February, we have family celebrations from April through September, with most of them being in August and September. Whenever we do a cake for a BBB, we’ll light the candles and sing ‘Happy Birthday’ to…everyone. We all throw in different names when it’s time to name the person, or we’ll just say everyone’s name really fast, or sometimes we just end up saying, ‘everyonnnnnnnnnne, Happy Biiiiirthdaaaaay to you…’
So we get to celebrate each other in big doses, and we truly enjoy doing it. It’s the whole Christmas concept of – it’s even more fun to give than receive. My family does that well. No one really cares about what they’re going to get – at least not as much as we care about how much you’ll enjoy the gift we’re about to give you.
My family does that well. No one really cares about what they’re going to get – at least not as much as we care about how much you’ll enjoy the gift we’re about to give you.
I love that.
This has been an extra fun year for birthdays. All of my nephews hit those milestone birthdays. Ross turned 16. Ryder turned 10. Robert turned 21. I’m pretty sure that my brother and sister-in-law didn’t plan it that way, but it’s fun to realize. To top it all off, my mama is going to be 70 on Sunday. Man, Ilove her. I’ve been nothing but blessed since I moved in to hang with my parents for a short season, back in June, while I transition back to live by my family. She’s amazing. (So’s my dad…but we’ll get to him later.)
A few weeks ago we did a Burton Birthday Brunch Bash – brother, David, got a waffle maker for Christmas last year and I don’t get enough use of it, so I requested a brunch bash. We brunched, and swam, and laughed a lot. Ryder brought the fun, and we do a mini version of that this Sunday to celebrate a few more birthdays.